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This is also true for brothers - I gave the very same advice to both my son and daughter when they left school, because it is so easy to just let things go, friends are precious and may we all have just the one we need at the just the time they're needed. I can't begin to count the many occasions when I found that spirit were working for me through this wonderful system!
Stella
SISTERS
A
young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting
with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the
responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked
the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon
her daughter
'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom
of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much
you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have,
you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with
them now and then; do things with them.'
'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women... your girlfriends, your
daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women.
Women always do.'
What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten
married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for
goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be
all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more
women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she
gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking
about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries
upon a woman, Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself,
the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying
for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open
arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and
carry you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters,
sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended
family, all bless our life! The world wouldn't be the same without women, and
neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea
of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we
would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still. Pass this on to all the women who help
make your life meaningful.
I just did. Short and very sweet:
There are more than twenty angels in this world. Ten are peacefully sleeping on
clouds. Nine are playing. And one is reading this at this moment.
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