PEOPLE COME INTO OUR LIFVES FOR A REASON
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually
to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the
reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your
part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do some-
thing to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up
and force you to take a stand. What we must
Realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their
work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it
is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn
has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of
peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have
never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job
is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have
learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you all for being a part of my life, whether you were a
reason, a season or a lifetime.
Stella
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