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The Guilt situation
We have a format for the guilt-giving situation …
First person says,
" Are you trying to give me a guilt complex?"
Second person says,
"Yes! " Then we laugh at each other.
This all depends on the awareness that it is only a bit of "poor me" syndrome - and offence is not taken ...humour is the key!!!
The odd comment of "How old are you now?"
Makes for a bit of thought .... with no expectation of reply!
Shouting at the top of your voice … "Let the bl--dy thing go!!" whilst being very tempting perhaps not ideal [ha ha!! ]
The story of the peanut might help...
Story
In Indian countries it is a well known fact that to catch a monkey all you have to do is put some peanuts in a pot that has a narrow opening.
The monkey will come along and put his hand into the pot and grasp the peanuts, but with the hand in a fist it cannot be withdrawn due to the narrow opening to the jar.
Result: one trapped monkey.
Moral to the story ... to be free we have to ...
o be free we have to ...
LET THE THING GO!!
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