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This has been transferred from the Healing Section. From Ann Connal - and I thank her very much.
>> Five lessons to make you think about the way you treat people. >> >> 1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady. >> During my second month of college, our professor >> gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student >> and had breezed through the questions until I read >> the last one: >> >> "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" >> Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the >> cleaning woman several times. She was tall, >> dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? >> >> I handed in my paper, leaving the last question >> blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if >> the last question would count toward our quiz grade. >> >> "Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, >> you will meet many people. All are significant. They >> deserve your attention and care, even if all you do >> is smile and say "hello." >> >> I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her >> name was Dorothy. >> >> 2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain >> Back in the 1960's, one night, at 11:30 P.M., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab. >> >> She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his >> address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a >> knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a >> giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A >> special note was attached.. >> >> It read: >> "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway >> the other night. The rain drenched not only my >> clothes, but also my spirits Then you came along. >> Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying >> husband's bedside just before he passed away... God >> bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving >> others." >> >> Sincerely, >> Mrs. Nat King Cole. >> >> 3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those >> who serve. >> In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, >> a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and >> sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in >> front of him. >> >> "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. >> >> "Fifty cents," replied the waitress. >> >> The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and >> studied the coins in it. >> >> "Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired. >> >> By now more people were waiting for a table and the >> waitress was growing impatient. >> >> "Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied. >> >> The little boy again counted his coins. >> >> "I'll have the plain ice cream," he said. >> >> The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on >> the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice >> cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress >> came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the >> table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, >> were two nickels and five pennies.. >> >> You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had >> to have enough left to leave her a tip. >> >> 4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path. >> In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a >> roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if >> anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the >> king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by >> and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the >> King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did >> anything about getting the stone out of the way. >> >> Then a peasant came along carrying a load of >> vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the >> peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the >> stone to the side of the road. After much pushing >> and straining, he finally succeeded. After the >> peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed >> a purse lying in the road where the boulder had >> been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note >> from the King indicating that the gold was for the >> person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The >> peasant learned what many of us never understand! >> >> Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve >> our condition. >> >> 5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts... >> Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a >> hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who >> was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only >> chance of recovery appeared to be a blood >> transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had >> miraculously survived the same disease and had >> developed the antibodies needed to combat the >> illness. The doctor explained the situation to her >> little brother, and asked the little boy if he would >> be willing to give his blood to his sister. >> >> I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a >> deep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it will >> save her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay in >> bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, >> seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his >> face grew pale and his smile faded. >> >> He looked up at the doctor and asked with a >> trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away". >> >> Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the >> doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his >> sister all of his blood in order to save her. >> >> >> Most importantly.................. "Work like you >> don't need the money, love like you've never been >> hurt, and dance like you do when nobody's watching." >> >> NOW more than ever - Peace...Pass It On.....
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