The question is sometimes asked by students if it is OK to ask questions when giving communictions, as it was noted I do actually ask a recipient at times certain kinds of question.~ Stella

Question: “Why do you ask things?”

Answer: I'll ask questions only to confirm the information, if I'm getting information, I want to know that it’s correct, I am not misunderstanding something.

But one of the things that I dislike and brings this whole mediumship thing into disrepute is ‘lazy mediumship’.

Let me explain "lazy mediumship," one way to ask a question is this, "Is your dad passed?" And you can say yes or no.

Or I can say, "Your dad has passed, yes?" I'm basically giving you the same information and I'm asking you to validate, because I don't know...

Q: Do you hear voices?

A: No, I hear thoughts. For example, when you're reading something, like books, to yourself, and you have the words going through your mind.

It's a thought voice. And then you can get a feeling or see images or pictures. And whatever I'm seeing, hearing and feeling contributes to understanding. It's like playing a game of psychic charades, trying to figure out what these pieces of the puzzle mean.

Q: So you never get a definitive, "I want to send this message to...?"

A: No, in my case the direction to go to one person is first kinesthetic then visual , pointing to a person, or in a 'lighting up' way -  then after that comes the actual communication, kind of like psychic sign language. 

Q: What I worry about is the people that would take advantage of people that are psychologically, spiritually, emotionally vulnerable.

A: And that's why it's important to raise every bodies awareness, so that they understand what's real and what's not real.

But you know, if you're going to see a psychic, and the psychic is telling you what to do, that's not a good place to be, definately not, psychics shouldn't be telling you what to do, that's a power trip, see?

A medium would never do that, spirit have only  our best interests at heart. They come on the vibration of good intention, anything else is not from the spirit world at all.

They should be providing you insights, and then you choose based upon your own God-given ability of free will as to what's going to happen or what you're going to choose to do. Personal responsibility at all times.

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